I see it so many times on the internet…
“I’m so glad i’m not married.”
“I’m way too young to have kids.”
“I don’t know why people put their lives on the internet.”
“People just need to enjoy their lives and not worry about being settled down.”
Here’s a public service announcement for you….YOU ARE NOT BETTER THAN ANYONE BECAUSE WHAT YOU WANT FOR YOUR LIFE ISN’T THE SAME WHAT SOMEONE ELSE WANTS FOR THEIRS.
Woah, weird, right?! SOMEONE might NOT want EXACTLY what you want in your life! Let’s alert the media….or at least BuzzFeed so they can write an article about it.
I’m so sick of these BuzzFeed articles such as “30 reasons not to be married before you’re 30” or “15 reasons why being single really is the greatest thing on the planet”
I see it everyday. People preaching about being an “individual”, doing what makes you happy, living your life for no one but yourself…blah, blah, blah….but when someone does something “out of the norm” or not “following the trends”….it’s like all hell breaks loose and we create a bunch of banter on Facebook to make these people feel small.
So why do people attack others for being settled down? Getting married at a young age? Having kids on purpose? Putting their life on the internet?
Those are just instances I see in my every day life because they pertain to me directly, but it literally happens for EVERY occasion lately. Every stereotype of person. Every hobby someone indulges in. I feel like no matter what is said or done these days, SOMEONE is offended. Breathing probably offends half the people in this world nowadays. How dare she breathe like that…
People want to preach one thing, and do another.
It’s rather annoying, in my humble opinion.
If you want to be married, GET MARRIED.
If you want to have kids on purpose, DO NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT THAT.
If you want to be single and travel, YOU DO YOU BOO BOO.
If you want to start a blog about cats, BLOG BLOG BLOG!
You’re not better than anyone because you’re single.
You’re not better than anyone because you’re married.
You’re not better than anyone because you have a good job or because you drive a nice car or because you choose to be a hippie or because you drink or because you don’t drink.
The list goes on and on and on.
Let people live their lives.
It shouldn’t concern YOU what other people are doing.
Okay, rant over. That’s been bugging me for awhile…
great post! a lot of people need to realise this and fast!
xoMadiha
I completely agree with this post! Why do people think they are superior to others just because they have different opinions and different life choices? I am well aware that what I want in my life is different than what others want and I don't feel superior to those who want different from me. For example, I follow this blog because I like the insight of what a different type of life would be like. I don't think or feel that I am better than you for having a different life than me. So glad you posted this! It is true and people need to respect others for having different lifestyles!